getting to know me

I should start by saying I don't believe anything is personal and the human experience is universal. I believe sharing and listening allows us to realize the ease around life. If we all would loosen our grips on "how we look" or "what others would think" I think we would all feel so much better. 

That being said, upon gentle nudging this blog is born. My desire is to reveal the under explored world of......Marriage!

I don't claim to be an expert on the subject, quite the opposite (more about that later). I am simply someone who has gone through the process and emerged into this land called Married. Previous to this initiation, I was curious about this institution and its members. Because of my job (massage therapist) I am often a part of proposals, weddings and anniversaries. I am, by nature, a inquisitive person. Therefore, I often ask, "How did you know she/he was the one?" "What's the secrete of a good marriage?" "Any words of advice?".

So, now I'm here to report back from the ALTARED side.